What are your boundaries?

I do not offer “off-the-clock” training, meet and greets, or live-in subs. I also have hard limits around race play, some types of edge play, self-harm talk/suicidal ideation, roman showers, changing soiled undergarments, involving parties that cannot consent, and any acts that violate local or state laws. More information is on my Real Time application page.

How do I prepare for a session?

First, make sure your hygiene is good. That means showered, clean inside and out, and dressed appropriately with no heavy scents or perfumes.  

Make sure you have eaten and are plenty hydrated. I will not see you if you are intoxicated. 

We will have an agreed-upon date and time to meet. Show up on time, and if running late let me know asap. I have reserved the space for our specific times so unfortunately, any time you are late will still need to be compensated for. 

Be respectful of My time and space after the session. I may have other things or pets to attend to, as much as I would love to discuss everything that happened. 

What safety precautions do you take?

R.A.C.K. (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) and P.R.I.C.K. ( Personal Risk-Informed Consensual Kink) are at the center of how I practice BDSM. Consent and awareness of all parties and activities involved are required to participate. 

I also take the privacy and protection of my client’s information very seriously, which is one of the reasons I chose to use an encrypted email for communication. The play space is also located in a discreet neighborhood so you don’t have to worry about coming or going from the session. 

I have been vaccinated and received my second booster as of April 2023. Anyone I see will have had their vaccination or a negative test 48 hours before their session. I keep in contact with anyone I have seen to make sure everyone is feeling healthy before and after sessions as well.

Can I be your personal submissive?

If you’re expecting to play for free, no.

I am selective and serious about who I engage with on a longer-term basis. D/s is a relationship, and like all relationships, they take time to cultivate and build trust. I require we’ve worked together for a long time before even considering any sort of “personal” servitude. 

Do you work with newbies and inexperienced people?

I adore working with people new to kink, as long as you can communicate your boundaries and needs clearly. It’s okay if you don’t know what you want right away, we can work on that together to ensure your safety and see what buttons need to be pushed. If you’ve been learning from trusted educators and mentors, all the better! 

Can I tribute you a gift or extras?

I love gifts, but they are not expected. I’m always appreciative to receive Avion Reserva 44, Cabo Wabo, Don Julio 1942, Patron Anejo, and Tequila Ocho Plata brands of tequila, single origin Madagascar dark chocolate, high CBD cannabis flower, vegan patisserie, professional massage or spa treatments, pedicures, gift cards to steam, Amazon, Etsy, or reputable BDSM shops such as Mr. S Leather, and camping/survivalist gear. I also have options listed on my linkz page as well.

If you’d like more ideas on what My interests are, check out the bottom of the About Me page.

Do you do sessions longer than 4 hours?

Only if we have worked together more than once and have a good-standing rapport. 

What if I don’t have a reference?

You will be required to age verify and screen through other methods. This includes showing Me personal information so I can do a background check. As soon as you are verified, all information sent to me will be deleted and destroyed. I never use this information other than to ensure My own safety. I am completely independent and none of your personal information will go beyond Me. Discretion and privacy are upheld with the utmost care and consideration. My hard work and time spent building My reputation and business as a professional are not worth damaging by divulging your personal information. 

Can I fly you out for a session?

Of course! I will require round-trip travel expenses, transfers, as well as lodging accommodations on top of My tribute. A 50% session deposit is required for all FMTY bookings due to the time it takes Me to prepare. Expenses are separate from My tribute and are expected to be paid 100% in full before travel.

What is the best way to reach you?

Through the session form under Real-Time or through email.