I am sensual, seductive, and sadistic. A guiding disciplinarian, a hedonistic sinner, and a final dungeon boss who aims to bring transformative experiences to those who seek what it is that lies in the depths of their own mind, body, and soul.
My lair is based out of the U.S. Pacific Northwest in rainy Portland, OR. I travel to other states a few times a year to bring my 13+ years of BDSM experience to those seeking My knowledge and skills. Specializing in humiliation, edge play, predicament and heavy bondage, cross dressing, training and discipline, mind-fuckery, impact and sensation play, creative role-plays, and much more!
I knew I was different when I found Myself gravitating toward strong, femme-fatal women with loads of wit in media, like Jessica Rabit and Elvira, rather than the demure, princess damsels-in-distress that My peers focused on emulating. I remember seeing shows that depicted interrogation, bondage, tickle torture, spanking machines and other nefarious devices, and the way men were so easily manipulated by beautiful women. I knew that this was what I wanted to passionately explore, and as I got older, I experimented heavily with friends and lovers. Everything from impact, piercing play, fire & wax, breath play, and more.
One thing I’ve learned about BDSM is that contrary to popular depictions in porn and mainstream media, it can be extremely playful and fun. Just like when we were children discovering our boundaries and games we love to participate in, this is the grown-up version of all those concepts. Kink and BDSM allow us as consenting adults to express ourselves in ways that are unconventional, or not as easily accessible, with an open mind and creativity. Being able to break down the taboo and stigma of these desires is something I am passionate about.
In 2012 I trained as a lifestyle submissive. I participated in pet play, role-play scenarios with other submissives, etiquette, domestic servitude, and mind fuckery. Eventually, I was invited to co-top for an entire week and discovered My love of taking a more dominant role which came much more naturally. This was further cemented while working in an adult store in 2014 where many people came in and commented on My dominating presence and ability to control a room full of horny men. I engaged in consensual blackmail fantasies as well as selling my used panties and humiliation tasks. In 2016 I formed a podcast about sex education and My journey to becoming a professional dominatrix. I started going to in-person classes, events, and play parties in My local community to become more acquainted with safety and protocol until finally taking the plunge to start seeing clients in 2019. In 2021 I began to realize My love of educating others on the ins-and-outs of BDSM and My lifestyle through social media platforms. I now see clients and travel regularly as well as create online content and teach occasional in-person classes. In 2025 I plan to create more beginner-friendly classes and travel to new locations to meet more BDSM communities!
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My passions include climbing my way to cult leader status, professional wrestling, delicious food experiences, not wearing pants, informative literature, traveling, paranormal investigation, RPGs, dancing, makeup and fashion, gardening and mycology, baking, weight lifting at the gym, various artistic pursuits, history podcasts, cosplaying, volunteering in my community, and slut training. The last two may or may not be related.
Although I do not expect gifts, they are always a wonderful welcome. My favorite gifts to receive are Avion Reserva 44, Cabo Wabo, Don Julio 1942, Patron Anejo, and Tequila Ocho Plata brands of tequila, single origin Madagascar dark chocolate, high CBD cannabis flower, french patisserie, professional massage or spa treatments, pedicures, gift cards to steam, Amazon, Etsy, or reputable BDSM shops such as Mr. S Leather, and camping/survivalist gear.